Magical Living #13 - 23rd Oct 2024
What is magical living?
Do you have dreams and desires? Do you want a better life? Maybe you want to be a better spellcaster, better parent, better member of staff, a better friend, a better neighbour or better at manifesting your dreams and desires.
Well here is the easy way to change your whole life………………..
Don’t keep thinking about what you don’t have, who you aren’t, who your not as good as, who you don’t have as much as, who you aren’t as happy as, who you aren’t as good a parent as and all those other things that play games with our time and mind.
You are who you are, if you are happy with you, then great job and just keep moving forward, but if you know in your heart that you could be better in some parts of your life, then stop thinking about the negative side of those issues and think about how you got to were you are now.
All lessons are learned from others, if you want to be a better boss for instance, what have your previous bosses been like, if they weren’t very good then that is what you have learned, but if they were better than you are now, why were they better, what can you do to bring your work ethic up to meet that standard. Worrying and complaining and making yourself ill isn’t going to work, stress only creates more stress, so make a decision that you are who you are and that you ill try to be better, once you take away the stress it becomes much easier, it is no longer a thought process, it comes from the heart.
Maybe you want to be a better Witch? What makes you think you could or should be better? Think about what you are already achieving, what you have accomplished on your journey. Does that need to change? We can all talk the talk, but it doesn’t mean all those other witches are out there doing anymore than you are. Spend time in nature, think about the seasons, follow the rules or laws of your form of witchcraft and allow what happens to happen. We don’t all need to be casting circles, doing spells, and running a circle every week to be a good witch, simply looking out for nature, teaching your own family the joys of what you do (without ramming it down their throat!) and enjoying your journey will lead you to were you need to be when you need to be there.
Magic comes from within as does happiness and joy. Take the head out of the equation and be lead by the heart. If it feels right it usually is and when it starts to feel wrong, make a change knowing it is because you are now a different person than you were then.
We really don’t need to live up to other peoples expectations, only our own, so enjoy life and don’t be too harsh on yourself. Commercialism has a lot to answer for.